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Shrinkle #11 · Pop psychology · 6 letters

Gentle parenting

A popular parenting approach built on empathy, respect and clear limits. Parents try to understand the feelings behind a child's behaviour while still holding firm boundaries, rather than relying on punishment or shouting.

In the room

A parent might calmly name a child's frustration during a meltdown, stay close, and still hold the limit that the toy is not getting thrown.

Something a client might say

“I told him I could see he was cross, but hitting is still off limits.”

An illustrative line, not a real client.

Online vs in the room

Online, it is sometimes mocked as never saying no or letting kids run the house. As usually described, it pairs warmth with firm, consistent limits; being kind is not the same as being permissive.

Related ideas

Authoritative parenting · Co-regulation · Boundaries

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